Promotions Celebration!

In my line of work, promotions are hard to come by – we compete against our peers to fill a designated number of spots at the next pay grade. Even if you have been recommended for promotion by the promotion boards, there might not be enough spots. In this instance, you miss out on the promotion, and start all over again the next year. 

I should have been thrilled when the stars aligned and I was finally promoted.  However, I learned that I had received a promotion on the same morning that I learned my mom’s passing was imminent.  It was an awful morning, and I was certainly in no mood to celebrate.

Now that a few weeks have passed, I took advantage of the Columbus Day holiday and invited a few colleagues (who were also promoted!) over for lunch.  We had the day off, but the kids had school, so we enjoyed a relaxing afternoon talking about how we got to where we are today, and the next steps – for our next promotions!

We started with a glass of champagne to toast our success.

I added fresh squeezed lime juice, lime wedges, and simple syrup to the tray. Then of course, I opened the champagne!

We had fresh lime sodas and mango juice to drink.

We had Italian wedding soup, Greek salad, fresh Italian bread, and baked ziti for lunch. 

And for dessert we had tiramisu and pizzelles, served with hot tea and coffee.

I made the tiramisu using this recipe from All Recipes.
All of the tips I read insisted that I use real espresso. So, I had some delivered from Paul cafe!
I’ve tried this recipe before, cooking the eggs in the pan, and my eggs curdled. I now use a ‘double boiler’.
A friend gifted me her Kitchen Aid stand mixer when she received a new one. It is still running strong on the transformer! (Note the UHT (shelf stable) whipping cream.)
Most recipes call for Marsala wine. I didn’t have that, and I didn’t have any rum, so I used cognac.
I tried dipping the ladyfingers into the coffee on a shallow plate, but I ended up dunking them in the measuring cup with tongs. That worked best for me.
After they were chilled, and ready to be served, I sprinkled them each with a bit of unsweetened Hershey’s cocoa powder.
The table was set – ready for food and guests! I put each tiramisu cup on the little boards, with a fresh mint leaf – plucked from our herb garden.

I mentioned earlier that promotions are hard earned, oftentimes taking 6, 8, 10 years or more to achieve.  Technically, I am competing against each of these ladies for future promotions, but this was a warm, friendly gathering – each of us sincere in celebrating each other and encouraging success. 

Rest in Peace, Colleen Biehl

My mom died in September of pancreatic cancer. She fought hard, but the cancer was brutal. I made this video tribute for her. She will be missed.

R&R June 2023

R&R 2023

As soon as school let out for the summer, Jackson and I were on a plane to the U.S.A.

Travel to the east coast from Jakarta is brutal.  We took three planes.  The first flight was from Jakarta to Tokyo and was about 7 hours in the air.  Then we had a 9-hour layover in Tokyo!  We tried ramen, we shopped in the Japanese souvenir store, and we walked back and forth to kill time.

Next up was a 14-hour flight from Tokyo to Washington, D.C.  This leg is tough.  We couldn’t get off the plane fast enough and thankfully breezed through customs and immigration with our Global Entry passes.  We collected our checked bags, rechecked them, and then boarded our last flight for another 2 hours to South Carolina. 

Jackson said a quick hello to Grandma and Grandpa (and their dog Indy), before he was whisked off for a summer adventure with his dad. 

For the next week or so we suffered from jet lag – sleeping all day – and lying awake all night, until our bodies accepted that we are on the other side of the world.

This visit, I hung out with my mom and dad for two weeks.

Once Jackson was finished with his visit to his dad, he and I took a road trip to see family in Pennsylvania. 

After a month of sleeping on air mattresses and living out of suitcases, we were both ready to head home.

Grandma and Grandpa
Trying Ramen in Tokyo (the broth was very fishy!)
Playing the piano for grandma and grandpa – showing off all of the new songs he has learned.
Grandma’s lily, on her front porch.
Celebrating my birthday at Seven Springs!
Jackson rode the Wild Mouse at Idlewild…and he LOVED it!!!
Kettle Corn at the Arts and Culture fair at Twin Lakes Park. It was hot, fresh, and delicious!
Cousin time! We got to see cousin Chelsea perform at the festival!
I picked up a National Parks pass while home.

Cub Scouts Blue and Gold Breakfast 2023

I volunteered to help with the Cub Scout Blue and Gold Banquet this year.

It turns out that the banquet is actually a breakfast that we combine with the bi-annual awards ceremony, the Arrow of Light (AOL) ceremony, and the crossing over (to Boy Scouts) ceremony.

Collaborating with the scout leaders, I designed the program:  Awards first, then crossover, and lastly, our Blue and Gold celebration.  This program included blue, yellow, white, and green candles.  I did not have colored candles, but I did have acrylic paint.  I painted clear glass votive cups to match the required colors.  The program also called for colored face paint.  I could not get my hands on safe/quality face paints in time, so I used water-based/non-toxic paints mixed with zinc-based sunscreen.  The colors were vibrant, did not stain the kids faces, and most importantly, were safe. 

I then designed the coordinating e-invitation, welcome posters, thank you tags for the parent volunteers (these were attached to blue and yellow iced fleur-de-lis shaped sugar cookies), and personalized AOL photos of the kids crossing over to Boy Scouts.

Luckily, I had lots of help decorating:  blowing up balloons, hanging streamers, setting up the awards tables. Everyone had a great time, and we’ve set the bar for next year!

Pack 3455 Appreciates You!
Treats for the parent volunteers
Painting votive cups for the AOL crossover ceremony.
Arrows of Light

Flamingle

Administrative Professionals Day 2023 was on Wednesday, April 26 and I organized a team building ‘flamingle’!

We had a tropical theme, with lots of pineapples and flamingos. 

We played a few games like Administrative Professionals MadLibs and Would you Rather.

We had tea, coffee, and lots of baked goodies like banana bread, raspberry white chocolate scones, and carrot cake.

The event was a huge success and everyone is looking forward to doing it again next year!

Lombok Island, Indonesia

Welcome Lei at Oberoi Beach Resort, Lombok

Lombok is an Indonesian island east of Bali and west of Sumbawa, part of the Lesser Sunda Island chain. It’s known for beaches and surfing spots, particularly at Kuta and Banko Banko (in south Lombok). The motor-vehicle-free Gili Islands (Gili Trawangan, Gili Air and Gili Meno), off Lombok’s west coast, offer more beaches, reefs for diving and snorkeling, and a sea turtle hatchery. ― Google

At the end of April, over the local holiday called Idul Fitri, Jackson and I flew to the island of Lombok, in Indonesia.  It is about a 1.5-hour flight from Jakarta. 

We stayed at the Oberoi Beach Resort for 3 nights, using the resident discount, and it was really lovely. 

It was about a 1.5-hour drive, with the option of taking the oceanside route, or the monkey forest route.  We chose the monkey forest route on the way to the hotel, and we saw lots of monkeys along the way.  The drivers on the road would slow down and feed the monkeys, but they were not aggressive, like I hear the monkeys in Bali are.  Tip:  Consider taking the monkey forest route back to the airport and bring some of the fruit from your room to feed the monkeys.

When we arrived at the hotel, we were greeted by a line of hotel staff whisking open the car doors and donning us with flower leis.  It was such an amazing welcome!

We quickly checked in and were then shown to our room.  Sweeping ocean views, high ceilings, massive windows, and frangipane flowers placed throughout the room, the shower, the bathtub…everywhere!  We had a bowl of fresh fruit, and a cookie jar filled with cookies.

That afternoon, we signed up for a few activities like snorkeling the Gili islands, visiting a wildlife park, and junior bartending.  We explored the place – with Jackson on a borrowed bicycle, we learned to play congklak, which is similar to mancala, and then we had a lovely dinner under the stars.  It was very late (for us), but Jackson had to try out the AMAZING bathtub before he hopped into bed.

Amazing bathtub, with a lily pond outside the window.

The next morning was a bit of a scramble.  I assumed the breakfast was a buffet (as it was included in the room rate).  Fortunately/Unfortunately – it was just as luxurious as everything else.  There was no buffet.  I asked our waiter to notify the boathouse that we would miss our snorkeling adventure.  I understood that it was completely my fault for not allowing enough time for breakfast.  The snorkeling outfit agreed to wait 20 minutes for us!  The waiter rushed our order, and Jackson and I wolfed down our breakfast (and my cappuccino!) and ran off to the boat house to join our trip.

Snorkeling in the Gili Islands

Another family must have also miscalculated as they missed the trip entirely.  There was one other couple, and when I apologized for being late, they said they had also just arrived, so it really all worked out perfectly.  It ended up just being me, Jackson, and the couple – who happened to be from the U.S.  They were lovely and made the trip enjoyable.  We boarded the boat and headed off to the Gili Islands with two boat hands – one captain, the other was the snorkeling guide.  Once we arrived at the snorkeling spot, they expected us to actually GET OFF THE BOAT.  The other three hopped right into the water…but I was not as keen.  I got myself on the edge, and unwillingly thrust myself into the water.  I struggled with the flippers on my feet – I couldn’t tread water like I’m used to, and just wanted them off.  The guy on the boat kept offering to give me a life vest.  By the time I got the flippers off, the others had swam away.  I tried to catch up to Jackson, but we were going against the tide.   I did some snorkeling but didn’t see anything.  I was trying not to panic.  The guy on the boat told me to hold on to the ladder on the side of the boat, and he would drag me to the group.  It was slow going.  I tried my best not to get flung into the propeller.  We picked up Jackson and the other lady along the way.  But the guy eventually stopped the boat and told us to hop back on – he would have to speed up to catch the guide.  Using the ladder I had been clinging to, I got on the boat, and wasn’t planning to get out again.  HA!  We had to get off the boat at the first Gili island called Gili Meno.  Here, we backed in, and were able to use the back of the boat as a step.  We saw a baby turtle sanctuary.  The baby turtles were adorable but were not ready for release.  Getting back on the boat was easy enough, using that back step.  The others did some more snorkeling along the way to the next Gili island called Gili Air, and they got to swim with a turtle!  At Gili Air, they drove the boat in frontways, and we had to jump off onto the sand – no step, no ladder.  The boat man did his best to catch me before we tumbled onto the sand together.  We enjoyed lunch with our travel companions, and then it was time to head back to Lombok.  Surprisingly, they expected me to climb back into the boat without a ladder or a step.  I tried, but it was not going to happen.  Eventually, they turned the boat around, so that we could all use the step.  I was done getting off and on the boat by now.  The others were tired, and we were all ready to get back to shore.  It was a lovely, peaceful return journey, and I have no desire to go snorkeling again.  😊

Turtle Sanctuary, Gili Meno
Lunch with our new friends on Gili Air
Jackson enjoying a Sweet Lime Soda

After making our way back to our room to change, we went off to find the junior bartending class that Jackson signed up for.  He had so much fun making a Shirley Temple and a ‘Mojito’.  He tasted them both, and actually liked them.  We poked around the resort for a bit, stopped for afternoon tea, and then a tropical coconut drink for me while watching the sunset.  (And even bumped into colleagues from the office!) We signed up for the 6:30 (early) dinner.  It was lovely – this time with live music.  Another soak in the tub and then off to bed.

Junior Bartender
Coconut Drink and sunset, Lombok Island, Indonesia

Our second full day, we had a more leisurely breakfast of pancakes, croissants, yogurt, fresh tropical fruits, cappuccino, before heading to the local wildlife sanctuary.  After purchasing our tickets and paying for baskets of fruit to feed the animals, we met our guide.  He shared information about the animals, carried our fruit baskets, and even took loads of pictures of us with my camera.  (This was especially nice, as we don’t have many pictures of the two of us together on these adventures!)  It was a hot and steamy day, but full of fun.  Jackson held a python!  We had an orangutan interaction with Kiki the baby orangutan.  He got to pet an owl.  I’ll let the pictures do the talking here. 

Breakfast at Oberoi Beach Resort, Lombok
Fruit Basket for the animals at the wildlife park
Welcome Committee at the Lombok WIldlife Park
Jackson holding a python
Jackson and Kiki at the Lombok Wildlife Park
Kiki likes Jackson
Jackson petting an owl – is this Hedwig?

On our way out, we stopped for ‘tea’.  What a lovely set up.  It was too hot for traditional tea, so we each had a ‘sweet lime soda’ otherwise known as a ‘lime squash’.  (Fresh lime juice, soda water, and some simple syrup.)  I tried a bite of everything, but Jackson was not feeling so adventurous. 

Refreshments after a long hot morning

We headed back to the resort and hopped into the infinity pool to cool off.  Ha!  The water was warm!  We had fun splashing about – with the palm trees swaying and the gorgeous views of the Indian Ocean.  We lounged in one of the pavilions, sharing a massive burger and some fries for a late lunch.  We poked around some more – playing lawn games and swinging on the massive tree swing.  Then, Jackson found the “Business Lounge”.  There was another family of boys his age going in and out.  He discovered that they were in there playing video games!!  He joined them, and I sat next door at the outdoor tearoom and enjoyed some spicy ginger tea and the gorgeous views.  By dinner, Jackson was exhausted.  We found our table and discovered that there was a buffet dinner instead of the ‘normal’ menu offerings that we had started to grow accustomed to.  He was thrown off by the buffet dinner, as he was looking forward to having pizza for dinner.  Luckily, they allowed him to order the pizza from the regular menu.  I enjoyed a few items on the buffet – they had a whole roast pig, a Soto Ayam buffet:  Soto Ayam is a traditional chicken (ayam) soup which is based on flavorsome broth and incorporates shredded chicken, rice noodles, turmeric (hence the rich yellow color), lemongrass, ginger, chili, and kafir lime leaf, shredded vegetables and it is traditionally served with half a boiled egg and segments of lime on the side, and then we called it an early night.

Swimming and Lounging
Tree Swing at Oberoi Lombok

On our last day, we packed our bags, enjoyed one last amazing oceanfront breakfast and checked out.  The kids were back in the ‘business lounge’, so Jackson hung out with them for a bit while we waited for our time to head to the airport.  We were prepared for the monkeys with the leftover fruit from our room, but the driver took us along the ocean road this time.  The views were so amazing – we were not disappointed.  We bumped into more colleagues at the airport – all heading back to Jakarta from a lovely stay on Lombok Island.

Oberoi Beach Resort, Lombok

Photo Story

American kids in Jakarta, Indonesia can take part in Cub Scouts through the Far East Council.  The pack is a blend of American kids and local Indonesian kids.  The American kids might have parents who work at the U.S. Embassy, for a private company, or even as missionaries.  The Indonesian kids all have some connection to the U.S. – perhaps their family lived in the U.S. for a bit – and they all speak fluent English.  The pack meetings are conducted in English, and are very similar to scouting in the U.S.

The pack is made up of both boys and girls – ages 6-11, the parents volunteer as den leaders, and we start each pack meeting with the Scout Oath and the Scout Law – just like in the United States.  The kids go camping here too – and this is what my story is about.  Instead of camping in the woods, they camped on a remote island!  The kids were busy earning their advancement requirements and earned ‘belt loops’ for adventures such as fishing and whittling.  As part of learning about ‘community’, the kids had a beach clean-up and planted mangrove trees to help the environment.

Cub Scout Pack 3455, Camping Trip to Desa Laguna Regenerative Village Resort island, Indonesia. Scouts arrive and start the official program by reciting the Scout Oath. March 25, 2023.
Cub Scout Pack 3455, Camping Trip to Desa Laguna Regenerative Village Resort island, Indonesia. Cubmaster Tim and Den Leader Mark help Tiger scouts Mateo (6) and Chase (6) fly a drone over the Java Sea. March 25, 2023.
Cub Scout Pack 3455, Camping Trip to Desa Laguna Regenerative Village Resort island, Indonesia. Scouts having fun on the paddleboards. March 25, 2023.
Den Leader Ishak leading the Webelos and Arrow of Light scouts of Pack 3455, Jakarta, Indonesia. April 15, 2023.
Cub Scout Pack 3455, Camping Trip to Desa Laguna island, Indonesia. March 25, 2023. Bear Scout Presley (9), working on her Whittling Chip for the Bear Claws adventure.
Cub Scout Pack 3455, Camping Trip to Desa Laguna Regenerative Village Resort island, Indonesia. Catching crabs. March 25, 2023.
Cub Scout Pack 3455, Camping Trip to Desa Laguna Regenerative Village Resort island, Indonesia. Bear Scouts Luna (8) and Kirana (8), along with Arrow of Light scout Ewald (11) washing up before lunch. March 25, 2023.
Cub Scout Pack 3455, Camping Trip to Desa Laguna Regenerative Village Resort island, Indonesia. Scouts and parents enjoying the lovely sunset while dining al fresco. March 25, 2023.
Cub Scout Pack 3455, Camping Trip to Desa Laguna Regenerative Village Resort island, Indonesia. Bear Scout Clara (8) roasting marshmallows for s’mores. March 25, 2023.
Cub Scout Jackson (9) of Far East Council, Pack 3455, Jakarta, Indonesia. Asleep in his tent after a very full day of fun! April 16, 2023.
Cub Scout Pack 3455, Camping Trip to Desa Laguna Regenerative Village Resort island, Indonesia. New growth on the island’s mangrove trees. March 26, 2023.
Cub Scout Pack 3455, Camping Trip to Desa Laguna Regenerative Village Resort island, Indonesia. Scouts Alberto (8), Mateo (6), Presley (9), Jackson (9), and Ewald (11) discovering a hermit crab. March 26, 2023.
Cub Scout Pack 3455, Camping Trip to Desa Laguna Regenerative Village Resort island, Indonesia. Scout moms Lisa, Linda, and Monica – the magic behind each adventure. March 26, 2023.
Cub Scout Pack 3455, Camping Trip to Desa Laguna Regenerative Village Resort island, Indonesia comes to an end. March 26, 2023.

A Person I Admire

I created this video of a person I admire very much for his resiliency. He has moved many times in his short life, and in the past two years he has attended three different schools. To me, he is the epitome of the term resilient: the ability to recover quickly from difficult conditions.

Desa Laguna Camping

Our second camping trip with the Cub Scouts was much more our speed. 

We arrived by speed boat.  It was an hour and a half trip, and the last part of it was wild!  The water in the Java Sea was a bit rough.  The boat hit the white caps, and we sailed into the air, and then landed hard.  Over and over again.  My head was pounding by the time we arrived.

We were greeted with cold drinks and snacks such as sandwiches and tropical fruit, and then we took a quick tour of the island and found our assigned tents.  The tent was right on the water – with beautiful views. We were in a ‘glamping’ tent, so the tent was raised off the ground on a wooden platform.  We had mattresses and little tables inside the tent.  (I put my glasses on the table this time, so I didn’t step on them in the middle of the night!)  We also had a ‘power brick’ that kept a fan running all night.  I was also able to use it to charge my phone and camera batteries.

This was an eco-adventure and the kids did a beach clean up and planted mangrove trees to help the environment.  But mostly, they just played in the sand.  The island was small enough to let the kids run around.  They also went fishing, they found crabs, played with sticks, and went paddleboarding and snorkeling.  They earned their whittling chip and Bear Claws adventure. We even had another bonfire and roasted marshmallows. Jackson loved roasting them and then turning them into s’mores for me! As we crawled into the tent, we were both feeling pretty good. Neither of us said “I want to go home”. The second day was just as fun and relaxing, but by lunch we were ready to go home.